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You are Your Leadership Superpower!

The world needs bold leadership more than ever.  Yesterday’s solutions have fueled today’s problems. A devastating pandemic. Economic crises. Widespread cynicism. Inequities. Divisions of all kinds. Are you ready to seize the opportunity to make a real difference?  How are you preparing to do your part?

Acquiring the right stuff is developmental and deliberate. Like good wine, leadership skills and savvy mature over time. Experience helps. Seek it out.  Pair it with the skills of reflective practice[1]. You’ll consolidate your strengths; deepen your understandings of human nature and the world; and avoid the same mistakes. Most importantly, harness the leadership superpower that is only yours for the taking – the creative energies of your true self.

Ocean Vuong, professor, MacArthur genius award-winning poet and essayist, and author of the New York Times best-selling novel “On Earth We Are Briefly Gorgeous”, rings a bell at the beginning of every class.[2]  More accurately, he invites the bell.  The bell, in Vietnamese Buddhist traditions, is always ringing somewhere.  We mute its manifestation – as we do so much of the world – through our tacit, selective screening of the information and experience available to us[3].  

The bell is a prompt for Vuong – a reminder to stop the automatic pilot of life and to call back with honor the first version of ourselves that brought us to this moment.  Long ago and without much clarity of what it would really mean or entail, a more trusting, younger version of each of us took a risk. It made a decision about what we wanted to do with our lives and launched us on the complex journey that has brought us to today. No deep understanding of the sacrifices or steps required. Little appreciation for the full consequences of choices. It stepped out and propelled us forward into the unknown with energy, excitement, and hope.

Western traditions, Vuong reminds, tell us to forget that former self. It was the child that had to be improved upon. Untrained. Immature.  Inexperienced. Unskilled. The long-decomposed acorn ignored in praise of the mighty oak.  

Wrong, says Vuong. That younger self deserves to be appreciated and remembered. It is the pioneer of our present whose “epicentric moment” of choice so long ago brought us here and nowhere else. It is also the direct link to the reservoir of strength, courage, risk-taking, and openness that lies deep within. Honor that self in all its contributions and bravery!  Invite it, advises Vuong, as a fruitful collaborator in our current success.

Few have Vuong’s gift for poetic meditation. But we can all heed the wisdom of his call.  We are our lived experiences. All of them – the successes and failures, moments of pride and shame, the parts of our past that lift us up and those we hide in fear that others might see us as less. Our experiences have forged our unique world view. Understand it! They have given us a set of skills, values, and understandings unlike anyone else. Claim them! Our lived experiences define what we alone can bring to the table – what we must bring to the table – if we are to join effectively with others in search of new paths to lead us from these troubled times.  Our authenticity is our leadership superpower if we are not afraid to use it.   


[1] Donald Schon (1983). The Reflective Practitioner: How Professionals Think in Action (first edition). New York: Basic Books.

[2] Ocean Vuong spoke on April 8, 2021 at the Radcliffe Institute.  It is available at     https://www.radcliffe.harvard.edu/event/2021-ocean-vuong-virtual

[3] Joan V. Gallos (2008). Making Sense of Organizations: Leadership, Frames, and Everyday Theories of the Situation. In Joan V. Gallos (ed.). Business Leadership.  San Francisco: Jossey-Bass. 

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Springsteen on leadership: We were all born to run

I’m a Jersey girl by birth who loves the music and the poetry in the lyrics of Bruce Springsteen.

Long Walk Home is a soul’s call to embrace roots and hope – integrate one’s past into a mindful present for a bright future.Dancing in the Dark,” disco-like in its magic, screams agency and activism: “you can’t start a fire worrying about your little world falling apart.” And if you can listen to Secret Garden – and the late Clarence Clemons’s sax solo – without feeling the human need for connection, well … Even before making it into the “Jerry Maguire” soundtrack, that song had me at hello.  [Hyperlinks for your listening pleasure!]

Recently, clip_image003I’ve come to appreciate Springsteen’s lessons for leadership, discovered while seeing him up-close and personal in the New York Times-acclaimed “Springsteen on Broadway.” I subsequently read his autobiography, “Born to Run,” to learn more.

Springsteen is smart, articulate, and self-reflective in the best sense; and he offers rare insights into creativity, career success, and high-impact leadership in a volatile and fickle industry. His wisdom speaks powerful truths to all who want to lead and succeed in today’s crazy, competitive world.

The Boss has much to teach!  Let me focus here on two of his “clean aces” – two ways of thinking and being that can elevate your leadership when brought more deliberately into your life and work: authenticity and persistence fueled by hard work and proactive learning.

AuthenticityAuthentic leaders know who they are – their strengths, limitations, and values – and are not afraid to show it. They understand their emotions and motivations, and draw on both to communicate with integrity. Bolman and Deal got it right: the heart of leadership lies in the heart of the leader. [1]

Springsteen is a clear product of his working class New Jersey roots, Catholic upbringing, and dysfunctional family. Tempted to run from early life pain, he instead dove deep and learned things vital and universal about himself and human nature – both of which became cornerstones of his music and success. clip_image001

“Music that emotionally described a life I recognized, my life, the life of my family and neighbors. Here was where I wanted to make my stand musically and search for my own questions and answers”, says Springsteen. “I didn’t want out. I wanted in. I didn’t want to erase, escape, forget, or reject. I wanted to understand. What were the social forces that held my parents’ lives in check? Why was it so hard? The piece of me that lived in the working-class neighborhoods of my hometown was an essential and permanent part of who I was. No one you have been and no place you have gone ever leaves you” [p. 264].[2]

Springsteen believed audiences would resonate with music that spoke truth – that reminded them of “something they know” and could “feel it deep in their gut” [p. 236]. He would use his authentic self as the conduit to deep connection with others – and career success.

“I wanted my music grounded in my life, in the life of my family, and in the blood and lives of the people I’ve known,” he stated. “I’ve learned you’ve got to pull up the things that mean something to you in order for them to mean anything to your audience” [p. 267].

For that kind of deep connection to happen night after night, Springsteen needed talented others who could – and would – consistently bring the same authenticity and soul.

“There is a love and respect at the center of everything we do together,” he asserted. “It’s not just business, it’s personal. When you came to work with me, I had to be assured you’d bring your heart. Heart sealed the deal” [p. 217].

He became The Boss – a name he does not cherish – by demanding soul, not technique or flash. Everyone who worked with him needed to be clear about his mission, values, decision making rules, and standards of excellence. He developed and has held firm over his career to what he calls a guiding philosophy – an intentional code of conduct – that weds the personal and the professional. Being great for Springsteen is all about integrity, love, service, and an honest relationship with his followers.

“We [Springsteen and his E Street Band] are more than an idea, an aesthetic. We are a philosophy, a collective, with a professional code of honor. It is based on the principle that we bring our best, everything we have, on this night, to remind you of everything you have, your best. That it’s a privilege to exchange smiles, soul, and heart directly with the people in front of you … to apply your trade humbly as a piece of a long, spirited chain you’re thankful to be a small link in” [p. 217].

Springsteen also understood the competitive industry advantage of authenticity and how it would keep his brand fresh and evolving.

“I’d seen other great musicians lose their way and watch their music and art become anemic, rootless, displaced when they seemed to lose touch with who they were. My music would be a music of identity, a search for meaning and the future” [p. 265].

What’s your authenticity quotient? How can you bring more of your true self into your leadership? Where would you start? What are the benefits for you? For your organization?

Persistence fueled by hard work and proactive learning Springsteen made a vow to improve his craft every day from the moment he picked up his first, cheap, childhood guitar; and his self-improvement work continues, driven by an unwavering commitment to hard work and continuous learning.

“I was interested in doing my job better and being great. Not good … great. Whatever that took, I was in,” said Springsteen. “If you have the talent, then will, ambition and the determination to expose yourself to new thoughts, counterargument, new influence, will strengthen and fortify your work” [p. 215].

His autobiography charts a complex and continuous path of learning, musical directions, investments, dead-ends, and discoveries. Through it all, Springsteen held no illusions. Success required being “very aggressive, very proactive about what you want” [p. 231], having resolute focus on the ultimate prize, and working hard to augment creativity and “deepen truth” [p. 214].

“I was not a natural genius,” Springsteen said he realized early in his career. “I would have to use every ounce of what was in me – my cunning, my musical skills, my showmanship, my intellect, my heart, my willingness – night after night, to push myself harder, to work with more intensity than the next guy just to survive untended in the world I lived in” [p. 138].

His persistence was fueled by a “passion” for high-impact and work ethic of “no wasted days or nights” [p. 115] – every failure has the potential for deep learning. Springsteen knew he had to “stay hungry” and “divest” of all unnecessary distractions to find “my adult voice” [p. 267]. He also made necessary sacrifices. Springsteen, for example, avoided alcohol and drugs when both were normative and readily available in the music scene – and he cut precious ties with those without that discipline. Nothing was going to come between him and making great music for as long as he wanted.

“The rock death cult is well loved and chronicled in literature and music,” he said. “The exit in a blaze of glory is bullshit. Now, if you’re not one of the handfuls of musical revolutionaries – and I was not – you naturally set your sight on something different. In a transient field, I was suited for the long haul. I had years of study behind me, I was physically built to endure, and by disposition was not an edge dweller. I was interested in what I might accomplish over a lifetime of music making” [p.214].

What do you hope to accomplish over a lifetime of opportunities? What’s your passion? What must you learn and do to lead to the full potential of your talents?


[1] L. G. Bolman and T. E. Deal (2011). Leading with Soul. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

[2] Page numbers appearing in brackets are from B. Springsteen (2016). Born to Run. New York: Simon & Schuster.

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Managing the Occupational Hazard of Leadership

Leadership is emotional work. “There’s no leading without bleeding,” Jerome Murphy, professor and former Dean of the Harvard Graduate School of Education, writes in the most recent Phi Delta Kappan.[1] “No matter what we call it — stress, agitation, loss, frustration, fear, exhaustion, shame, confusion, sadness, loneliness, hurt — there’s not an executive alive who can lead without experiencing emotional discomfort.” Anyone who has led – from the head or the foot of the table – knows exactly what Murphy means.

Leaders can’t escape this occupational hazard; however, they can be their own worst enemy in responding to it – turning inevitable job discomforts into personal anguish and self-doubt that erode focus and energy.

“In the privacy of our minds, we can make things worse by fighting our discomfort, getting hooked on our troubling thoughts, and scolding ourselves for falling short. As a consequence, we can sidetrack our work and lose sight of what really matters to us.”

The stage is set for unproductive denial (and an investment of psychic energy pretending we’re not uncomfortable) or negative self-talk (and worries about whether our discomfort is a sign that we’re a flop or, worse yet, no leader at all). “In the grip of mind chatter that sounds like a Greek chorus of naysayers, it’s not unusual to rehash the past, fret about the future, and hang ourselves out to dry,” concludes Murphy.

There are more productive ways to respond, and Murphy draws from psychology and Eastern thinking to suggest six.

1.  accept the emotional discomforts at the core of leading: “In doing so, we can hold them more lightly, believe them less resolutely, and take them less personally.”

2. acknowledge distress without clinging to it: “We can have our thoughts rather than be had by them.”

3. focus on changing behaviors, not feelings: “We can accept what we’re experiencing at the moment while still working to make things better.”

4. treat self with compassion, kindness, and care. “Both intuitively and through scientific research, we know that self-compassion is central to well-being.”

5. accept human imperfection: “Self-criticism is often accompanied by an irrational but pervasive sense of isolation — as if ‘I’ were the only person suffering or making mistakes.”

6. keep faith in core values: They remind us what’s at stake and put the inevitable discomforts in leading from and toward them in perspective.

Mindfulness training can help cultivate these habits of the mind. The leadership payback is clear: increased capacities for situational diagnosis, task focus, calm value-centered action, and resilience.

Our internal dramas may still be intense, warns Murphy, but we’ll witness them from a safe, nonjudgmental place where we can respond wisely.

[1] Jerome. T. Murphy. Dancing in the rain: Tips on thriving as a leader in tough times. Phi Delta Kappan (September 2011), 93 (1): 36-41.

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Becoming a Roz Savage: Leading Like You Want to Be Remembered

Roz Savage is a fascinating woman. Next month, if all goes well she will become the first woman to row solo across the Indian Ocean and the first to solo “the Big Three:” she already has the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans under her belt .

The rowing the distance in solitude, ambiguity, and potential danger is inspirational. It takes a lot of planning, courage, persistence, and self-confidence. Equally interesting is the process that got Roz out of her business suit and into her small boat.

“I worked as a management consultant for my entire adult life, despite knowing from the very first day that this was not the career for me.”[1] Her peers were all becoming consultants or investment bankers after college graduation, and Roz followed the crowd. “The pay was good, and it would do as a stopgap until I figured out what I wanted to do with my life.”

You guessed it. Years later – eleven to be precise – Roz was still a consultant and increasingly unhappy by her own admission.

“Who I was on the inside didn’t match the besuited management consultant I had, almost inadvertently, become on the outside.”

She decided to take stock and engaged in a classic life clarification exercise. She wrote two versions of her obituary: the first as she would like to be remembered, and the second as she would be if she stayed on her current life course. Comparing the two gave Roz courage to make a change.

“So I pared life down to the basics to find out what really mattered to me, to find out what was left when I was defined by who I was, not by what I owned or who I was with.”  Roz experimented with different businesses and projects, but none fit quite right – and she knew this time around to let go of those. In the process, she discovered her passion for extreme rowing and environmental work. The rest, as they say, is history.  

Are you living the life you want? Are you doing things that really matter to you? Are you excited and happy to get to work each day?

The answers matter to you. They also matter to those you lead.

Leadership is about passion and commitment. It’s about inspiring others to find that in your shared work. If you are just pushing the papers, playing the role, or waiting for a paycheck, others will know. Your capacity to influence diminishes, and the days go by.

So what’s your leadership legacy going to be?  What do you want to be remembered for? Are you on a track that will get you there?  If not, what are you waiting for?


[1] Roz Savage (2011). “My Transoceanic Midlife Crisis (I quit my job and ended my marriage to row the Atlantic. Adrift and alone, I found a woman I never knew). Newsweek Online. March 20, 2011. Accessed March 28, 2011 at http://www.newsweek.com/2011/03/20/my-transoceanic-midlife-crisis.html